With ringtones, games, and cool looking phones, your
kids have probably already asked you for a cell phone.
If they haven't asked for a cell phone yet, the new iTunes cell phone from Cingular and Apple, the Motorola ROKR, may get them on their best behavior for a short time as they 'work you' for a cell phone.
Do your
kids really 'need' a cell phone though?
If you ask them, the answer is going to be a definitive 'yes,' of course. But their reasoning can be a little shaky, including that:
cell phones are cool
all of her friends already have
cell phones
it will allow her to call when she is going to be late
she can use it in an emergency
Of course, buying something just because it is cool, unless you are doing it as a special treat or reward, is never a really good reason. And if all of your child's friends have
cell phones, then she really doesn't need one, does she? After all, if she is going to be late, she can just use one of their
cell phones to call you. And does a phone call really excuse a teen from being late?
The last reason is a good one though. Having a cell phone to use in an emergency is probably the only good reason to get one. Especially once your teen is driving, a cell phone can be essential in case her car breaks down, etc.
Younger children can also benefit from having a cell phone from a safety perspective if they spend a lot of time in after school activities, go to child care after school, or spend time with another parent on the weekends. In addition to being used in an emergency, a cell phone can be practical and an extra convenience, for example if you need to pick your child up early or if baseball practice is running late.